Hello Guys ! So today I come up with a very sensitive issue to discuss with you i.e Women’s Safety. Now a days On every second we are getting a report about the violence against women’s. In every country this has been the major issue.
From the day 1 when the girl is born she has to bear so many problems because she is born as a girl. Now a days When we turn the pages of a newspaper, we come across many headlines reporting cases of sexual harassment, sexual assault, molestation, rapes, trafficking, ill treatment of women in houses, violence against women in remote areas and urban areas etc. These all indicates that there has been an increasing trend of such sexual overdrives in present generation.
No women is safe in this country . But do we really think who is responsible for all this? Is it the lapse in legal system or this country or the police or the public where such incidence occurs or the Society as a whole. I am not talking about any specific country it is all over the world.
We all doing the blame game for this type of incident daily but don’t try to reach the root of the problem. One thing I would like you tell you here that we have two types of approaches to solve this issue, The first is short term solution and second one is long term solution.
As a good citizen, we have a fundamental duty to contribute towards bringing an order to ensure dignity and respect for women so that she can also enjoy her human rights and fundamental rights with sense of pride, freedom and confidence. To ensure this at every level the society must work together to give an edge to the solution. To protect a girl child we should always teach her Judo karate for their self defense.
For this we need to give women such devices and gadgets which could provide her location using GPS technology to a central control room of police or send messages of her address to nearby locations like we have one new safety watch in the market which has this ability to send messages to our dear one’s. When you go to somewhere always send taxi number and your location to your family members so that they can easily track you.
One option is to keep some pepper spray with her. This is most useful product for women when going outside without their husbands or any male persons. A small knife in her wallet also helps women for protection. Always watch your near by surroundings. Don’t ignore anything suspicious. Even in malls when you go for any shopping always check with hidden camera’s in the changing room. Lots of news are coming daily about changing room hidden camera. Don’t take any type of drink and food with strangers in any condition.
Parents should keep an eye on her daughter continuously because now a days you never know when your daughter will be in trouble. Always talk to your girl child and keep watching her behavior daily.
One important thing I just need to mention here that please don’t go anywhere with your male relatives other than your father and brother. Now a days several cases seen by us of some relative take the girl to somewhere with him and sexually harasses her or something like that. Sometimes it has been seen that some girls to have an interest in going on vacations with their friends without informing their parents and they got betrayal for their friends so always keep your parents informed.
Another option is to reform our police system. We need to allocate some women police in every area. Introduce CCTV camera’s in all areas of every city. Also reforms in our legal system is required such as stringent punishment which are non bailable in nature. This could act as friction to those who perpetrate crime. Court has to be more cruel towards the guilty. The punishment should be very strong so that he should think several times again to act such type of activities.
We need to introduce women driver in all transportation so that women’s will be feel more safe while traveling with these vehicles. Now-a-days there is some Pink auto running in different cities in India for only women’s. This is we can say some sort of active startup to protect women.
One of the main aspects can be seen in parents preferring male child over female. In every aspect of life, women’s are denied or given less preference over male whether it is for giving education or access to health care. They have not been a freedom to choose their profession. This system thus gives a feeling in male that they are superior and hence dominate over women. This generates hatred in male against women if they see a woman crossing their limitations. Now women are no longer behind the men they are above the men in all fields .
So as you see problem’s are not depending on 1 or 2 factors, Its a combinations of different factors which has to be deal with some proactive decisions. In other words, we need to take action not by force but by will to make our country more secure and safe for our better halves and bring up reforms in the desired direction so that woman can also enjoy their freedom and rights ,and feel more empowered and fearless. One more important point that A Relationship between husband and wife matters a lot. A man and women relationship plays a very crucial role here in Women’s safety.